Backgroud Check on Dates

I have been in the dating scene for a while now and wow do I have stories about some of these woment out there :{ Today I was bored stumling on the net and found this website playerblock.com that allows you to do a background check on people by their phone number. Pretty funny things people say, I have a few to add myself.

Need Some Advice

Yesterday I was talking with my sister about my husband and how distant he has been recently. I know marriages go through their ups and downs but something did not feel right.
After listening she told me that it may be a sign of cheating and told me to check out this site and player block. After searching player block for his cell phone number I was overwhelmed with the comments I found.

Brenda Says "This guy is a total loser! I was at the supermarket and he approached me. I instantly saw the ring on his finger so I played along. I asked for his number to expose him on here. Ladies beware, I feel sorry for his wife."

Tina Says "We went out for coffee and all he talked about was how great he was. He then told me he was married and asked if I was ok with that! Is he for real?"

After reading this it is pretty evident what is happening. My question is should I confront him with this or hire a private detective to get concrete evidence. I think if I confront him with this he will give me a response like "It‘s the internet honey, anyone can post anything".
Any advise is appreciated

Players Beware

Today I seen a few hot girls on campus and went over to see what magic I could work.
The hottest one seemed distant so I played it up with her friends. After a few minutes of chatting I invited them to meet at JB's a local bar later tonight for some drinks.

They all seemed down and then the hot one says "What's your number"? as she pulls out her iPhone. Inside I was so excited but tried not to let it show as I proudly gave her my number. Then the unthinkable happened, she tells her friends to look at her phone. As they crowd around I can only wonder what could be so entertaining.

All of the girls have this look of amazement on their face so I ask what's going on? Then one of them blurts out "You've been blocked!" Blocked? What do you mean?
She shows me her phone with this website Player Block and my phone number is on there with a comment from my ex-girlfriend reading the following. "Chris is the biggest player I know. He has slept with most of the girls on campus and should not be trusted. At first he comes off as charming but once you give it up he turns into a total jerk".

I couldn't believe it! Now I have to change my number and be carefule of who gets the new one!

Player Interview

Introduction: Today we are in PlayerBlock headquarters interviewing John Masterson who was recently reported on www.PlayerBlock.com as being a “player”. John came to us to defend his status and after speaking with him and listening to his story, we asked him for an interview. Below are the questions and answers.

PB: So I see that you have been reported on www.PlayerBlock.com just the other day. What are your feelings on this?
John: I was outraged at first. I couldn’t believe it happened to me. I kept asking to myself… Why would she do this to me?

PB: Ok John, if it’s ok with you, would you care if I share the comment with the world with exactly what she wrote about you?
John: Sure, go ahead.

PB: “John is nothing but a player and will never be anything but a player. This guy has the nerve to take me out and act like such a nice guy, but at the end of the day he is nothing more than a two headed man thinking about him and nothing but himself. I wonder which head he thinks with? Stay away ladies, he is nothing but trouble and will only waste your time.”
John: Yep, that’s the one. How ridiculous is that?

PB: What do you mean? Why is she accusing you of being a player?
John: I really don’t know what got in to her. It’s not like I killed somebody or broke the law here!

PB: John… lets be real here. There is more to the story than that.
John: The story is simple here. I met her one night at happy hour at a local bar. I introduced myself and we started talking. Everything seemed great at the time. We had a few drinks and she asked me to call her the next day and I did. We ended up going to dinner and a movie the following night. After the movie we went out for a few drinks.

PB: Well, so far… that seems like a typical night for most couples.
John: Exactly!

PB: So then what happened?
John: We went back to my place. It’s not like I forced her to come back with me. I just asked and she agreed. She was having a great time. I gave her the tour of my home and I saw her eyes light up with amazement of my closet.

PB: Closet?
John: Yea… it’s just not a normal closet. It’s about the size of my closet that struck her. It’s a fairly large closet that has his and hers openings. It’s about the size of my kitchen I would say. I even laughed at her when she mentioned how many shoes and heels she could put in there.

PB: Umm, ok?
John: Anyways, to make a long story short we ended up in bed together that night. I ended up cooking her breakfast the following morning and then she left that day. On Monday morning, she ended up texting me saying she wanted to come over again that night after work. I was like sure, come on over. Later that afternoon, I ended up meeting up with a client that just flew into town and I called her to let her know that I was not going to be able to meet up with her. She said ok and I hung up. Within ten minutes of hanging up, I got this text from her saying how she will just meet me in my bed and wait for me to get home. Now this may seem all fine and all, but since I really didn’t know her to well, I wasn’t comfortable just letting somebody I just met this weekend into my place all alone.

PB: Very understandable.
John: So I texted her back saying that we should make it another night.

PB: What was her response?
John: I don’t have the text anymore since I erased it, but all I can say is that she was not a happy camper.

PB: Well, it seems like she was really into you. You both must have hit it off really well.
John: Yea, sort of.

PB: Sort of? Explain a little more.
John: Well, it’s like this. I live a very busy life. It’s a little hectic with work sometimes and I tend to only really have the weekends to myself. I have created my own wealth and I worked very hard to be in the position I am currently in. So when a client comes into town or I have a business meeting, I really need a person by my side that understands my commitments in life.

PB: Did you explain this to the lady you met over the weekend?
John: Yes, in a way I did… but it’s not like I want to indulge all my life history to a woman within one weekend of meeting her. Whatever happened to having a little bit of curiosity?

PB: I do agree with you in some aspects. But let’s dig and get to the real reason. It sounds like you have a problem committing to somebody. Is this the case?
John: I’m not afraid of commitment. I have had several relationships that lasted about three years each. For whatever reasons that I won’t get into, I never really could marry any of them. And this is why I was so outraged with the player comment she left about me. If she only knew the real me and instead of just presuming I was here for only one reason. That’s just not me!

PB: Ok, relax… I see that you’re getting mad and flustered now. Where is this coming from? Tell me a little more about your prior relationships. Do you seem to date a lot since your last relationship?
John: My last relationship was about two years ago. I dated a very beautiful girl with a great personality. She was my world and the girl of my dreams. We had our ups and downs throughout our time together. I take blame for many things that went wrong between us both. I was still learning what it was like to be with such an amazing woman. I mean, I had several girlfriends prior to that, but she was the one that stuck out the most from everybody prior. She was the first girl ever that I thought I would get married too. I even planned on buying her a ring with the little bit of money I did have.

PB: Let’s stop there for a second. Seems to me that you really still have feelings for her. Is this true?
John: Of course I do. She was everything to me.

PB: Do you still speak with her at all?
John: No. I don’t think she will ever want to speak with me again. We had a falling out and things and other people just got in the way. I don’t feel right chasing after her now after all this time. I know time heals all wounds, but the scars are still there if that makes sense to you.

PB: I understand. At the same time, if this was the girl of your dreams, don’t you think it’s worth a shot in your best interest to contact her and let her know how you feel?
John: I really don’t know. Maybe I’m just hesitant to know she may be with somebody else and forgot about me.

PB: I’m sure you’re not the only person with this issue. As you said… “Time heals all wounds”. So tell me more about the last two years since you split from your last relationship.
John: What a rollercoaster ride it has been. I have been with many women since then. None have really caught my attention longer than a few months here and there. But I blame this solely on my job and how tied up I am with work and business all the time.

PB: So you been with many women huh? Sounds like the last girl may have been on to something. Don’t you think that these ladies have feelings and they can see how you act with them?
John: I wouldn’t say that. It’s just really never worked out for anybody I met over the last few years for various different reasons.

PB: like what reasons?

John: I’m not even sure I should be even telling you this, but… there have been a few women that are off their rocking chair. They expect the world in a matter of a month. Some say “Take me here, take me there”. What do I look like? A bank with unlimited funds? No! I have worked hard to get to the point where I’m at now. I don’t want some woman to scoop me up just because I have finally got to the point of making it and they want to live off of me. I lived with my ex for some time and rarely ever did she complain about the finer things in life. That is a type of woman I’m looking for. Somebody who is real and genuine and more so… realistic. Another example of some woman that didn’t make the cut would be the ones that love complaining about anything and everything. It just amazes me and totally boggles my brain that these women actually made it this far in life. Maybe the little things in life don’t bother me as much as them, but all they really are is simple little things that can be fixed with a cool temper and good attitude. I swear I even met the “Devil” once when visiting a woman out of the state. She floored me with such crazy accusations and the lies she had was endless, even when she was caught red handed lying; she would use a lie to cover that lie. Some people are just like that and you must move on. It’s not worth my time and I feel sorry for any future boyfriend that one has.

PB: How many ladies have you been with over the last two years?
John: I rather not say.

PB: Seems like you have put up some high expectations from any lady that comes into your life.
John: Of course I do, why shouldn’t I do that? I deserve someone that I can really appreciate each and every day. I know I will be a great husband one day, but I want to have a great wife one day with a few little ones running around as well.

PB: Does this picture come with a cat, dog and a white picket fence?

John: Haha. Maybe it does. Who doesn’t want to have the American dream?

PB: Do you feel that one day; you will give in and lower your lofty expectations?

John: Nope. I fully intend to find the right girl that meets or exceeds everything I ever dreamed of. If I had it once, I’m sure I can have it again.

PB: So in the mean time, you will be out and about trying each girl to see which one sticks? Do you know how that sounds? Think if any ladies knew this about you; would you even get as far as you did with the last one?

John: If you’re talking about sex, then I really don’t care. At this point in my life, I rather just skip that part and just get to the part of finding the right person instead of playing the deck of cards that are dealt. This is why I’m not really so upset anymore about what the last woman wrote in www.PlayerBlock.com . In a sense, she is right. Maybe I did take advantage of her in some way. I’m not really sure what to do anymore. Do I stop going out? Do I try online dating sites such as www.Eharmony.com or www.Match.com ? I know I am a good guy with a good heart, but sometimes I’m just portrayed wrong. I just want to find the right girl for me and if it takes me going through many more woman, then so be it. I will have to do what I need to. Maybe someday, the next girl of my dreams accidently walks into me at the grocery store and we hit it off and the so called hunt is over. It’s only a matter of time before I find the right partner.

PB: Well, living in Florida where the girls are beautiful and plentiful, I’m sure you will be just fine.

John: I couldn’t agree with you anymore. It’s really a blessing in disguise living down here.

PB: Since we had the time to get inside your mind and really understand where you are coming from, do you have any regrets on what you said? Anything else you want to share with the audience?

John: I have no regrets and I would like share one or two things with the public. Just because a guy is looking for the right girl and it takes him a long time to find the right woman, it does not mean he is a player. I know many women who go from guy to guy doing the same thing. It just so happens to be the world we live in. With technology at our finger tips and easier access to meet new people, the rules have changed from the time of our elders. If you can remember one thing and one thing only… patience is a virtue.

PB: Very well said. Thank you John.

John: Thank you



Interviewee: John Masterson
Interviewed by: Anthony Loveland
Source: www.PlayerBlock.com

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